The threesome is often seen as a dream come true for a lot of men: many women are also quite enticed by the idea. As sexually thrilling as it can sound in practice, it is important to remember that there are a lot of other things to consider when you consider having sex with two people at the same time. As much fun as sex can be, it can sometimes involve a lot of politics. As a result, if you are planning to have a threesome you may want to consider a couple of things.
Speaking Openly with Both Partners
Regardless of the kind of relationship you have with your two partners beforehand, you need to speak to them about what a threesome actually means. Are you only interested in a night of passion, or is there the possibility of something more developing? It is probably a good idea to discuss what kind of levels of attraction you have as well.
The Rules
This may not sound sexy, but it can end up making for a much more comfortable experience for everyone. Discuss who is allowed to touch who, and what will happen if one person gets/feels left out. Some people enjoy watching others get at it for a bit and then joining in later. It may be that all three can do everything with one another, or that only two partners are interested in doing things with one. This needs to be discussed beforehand.
Will It Be Weird Afterwards?
This is something else you will need to keep in mind. If you know the other two quite well and have no worries, then go ahead! However, if you feel it may put a strain on the friendship/relationship, you may want to reconsider things before getting busy.
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